Arriving
Arrive, take a deep breath, relax. Now you can take the time for yourself, and find new ways to deal with life's challenges by exploring new perspectives according to your dreams and needs. Here you are not judged. Where is it you want to go? What is it you want to achieve? How do you (not) want to feel? You are approaching proven ways to develop yourself and explore your courage and power.
My role
Each coaching relationship is unique designed for you, in which you will quickly create me as your loyal ally, your backup, your coach, while I will be your devil’s advocate. I will guide you, challenge you, stand by your side and protect you throughout this journey, making sure you are ready to take the next step. This is one of the most important parts of my work, making sure you are prepared emotionally and equipped with the right tools and mindset to make lasting changes empowered by yourself! To live a life in which you are more in control!
YOUR WISHES
Do not worry if you have a hard time to describe what really bothers you. You will find out soon enough, when we talk about it. I get approached with very different situations and each situation requires a different approach. There are some things that are difficult to overcome without somebody there to listen and help identify and overcome the causes: confused life purposes, overwhelming fears, crises in the job, heaviness of spirit, hurting separations, lack of vitality and power. There are others where you may need an extra push (whether inner or outer) such as taking decisions, such as formulating and focusing in on goals or taking responsibility. There are others where a devil's advocate is in need to identify your defenses, to develop effective strategies for your goals, to lay out your thinking patterns or beliefs for you to see what you tell yourself. And others where the right mindset is needed, such as activating your resources, forgiving yourself and others, letting go through tranquility and feeling gratitude or peace of mind or real power. Everybody is at a different spot in their life, and most people may need all of these and others only effective strategies and tools to be more effective and achieve even more growth and success!
Yes, I won't lie to you. Growth and change can be painful. But what is more painful in the end: self-mastery or being stuck?
At the same time, you will be surprised how effortlessly you will shrug off some of the problems that have been accompanying yourself for such a long time that you may now think are part of you and how refreshed and liberated you will feel after five days. Yes, you will even catch yourself laughing while looking back to baggage left behind and obstacles overcome- still in disbelief and with a broad smile for yourself :)
The edge
Listening with my mind and soul, being attentive to sensory cues to discover inner conflicts, fears and dreams, ease of transforming emotions, being quick to identify dilemmas and inconsistencies and the ability to protect you emotionally and get you out of your comfort zone for efficient, real solutions.